Everyone wants a great neighbor so that they can live in their home peacefully and not have to get caught up in petty drama. Unfortunately, sometimes, the person next door might just love stirring up conflict and can’t wait to make it someone else’s problem.
This is what a man experienced when he and his wife moved into a new building and immediately realized what an annoying neighbor they had, as she kept complaining about everything. Eventually, it got to be so tiresome that he got her to keep away with a clever and wholesome trick.
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The poster shared that he and his wife had rented a flat in a townhouse and that they had no problems except for a tiresome older neighbor
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Right off the bat, the neighboring lady complained about their toilet leaking when it actually wasn’t, as a way to inconvenience them and assert her dominance
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The older woman kept complaining about different things, gossiped about other residents, and even made racist remarks
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The poster got her to leave him and his wife alone by cornering her for an hour and boring her with the randomest information
When the poster and his wife moved into their apartment, everything seemed to be fine, and they didn’t have any issues with their building manager. The only problem they faced was with the older lady living below them, who kept being a menace to them and others by complaining or finding fault with everything.
It’s difficult to know why some folks behave this way and have no qualms about making their neighbors miserable, but housing experts say it could be because they enjoy the conflict. Although there could be some reasonable motives for certain disputes and discussions, if the people next door are always causing drama, it could mean they lack empathy and feed off others’ misery.
Unfortunately, this kind of situation is more common than one would expect, and a survey shows that over 53% of Americans deal with annoying neighbors. Things often become so bad that more than 1 in 7 people have not renewed their lease due to difficulties with the folks next door, and 1 in 5 people have filed formal complaints.
It doesn’t seem like the poster and his wife wanted to get the woman in trouble or shift somewhere else due to her behavior, so they’d definitely have to come up with a new plan to protect their sanity. Although the OP didn’t have an idea of what to do, he knew that he would have to be nice about it and wouldn’t stoop to her level.
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The older neighbor’s peskiness seemed to keep ramping up, and apart from her slew of complaints, she kept spreading rumors about other folks in the building and was also generally quite nosy. Her rude and malicious behavior went on for two years before the OP and his wife had had enough and felt like they’d have to do something about it.
The best and most wholesome solution the man found was to bore the woman by oversharing in extreme detail. He began by talking about his childhood, then other details of his life, and even when she started backing away, he kept following her and continuing the stream of conversation for an entire hour.
The older lady was probably so exhausted from listening to him that she consistently began avoiding him every time after that, and no longer interfered with the couple. This outcome is the perfect reason why conflict experts say that kindness can help resolve disputes and lead to better connections between people.
Of course, the best part about the OP’s creative solution is that it helped protect him from the neighbor’s toxicity and kept her away without causing even more problems. Hopefully, other residents in the townhouse follow suit and scare her off with the help of some boring kindness.
Have you ever carried out a wholesome revenge plan like this? If so, we’d love to hear about your experience.
Folks were amused by the man’s simple trick to keep his pesky neighbor off his back
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