Weddings don’t come cheap. According to a recent report, the average cost of one in the U.S. has climbed to $36,000 in 2025. And that doesn’t include the honeymoon. It’s no surprise, then, that many couples choose to cut costs when it comes to some aspects of their big day. While there’s nothing wrong, and everything right, with having a wedding within your means, there is fine line between affordable and cheap.
People have been sharing the most cringeworthy “budget wedding” disasters they’ve had the discomfort of witnessing. From toilet rolls being used as drapes, to a couple who took “trashy” quite literally and got married next to a dumpster… We has gathered our personal top picks. We also found some tips on how to keep wedding costs down without making your guests feel like they’re in Tacky Town.
#1 Wasn’t Expecting To See A Wedding When I Stopped At Walmart This Weekend
#2 Decoration Of The Wedding Hall
#3 Gas Station Wedding
Just because the average cost of a wedding has sky-rocketed to $36,000 in 2025, it doesn’t mean you have to spend that on yours. But for the love of all things holy matrimony, whatever you do, don’t use toilet paper as drapes or give your guests food poisoning by storing your pasta salad in an inflatable pool. There are plenty of ways to keep costs down without going to Tacky Town.
#4 Aren’t They Supposed To Refrigerate That?
#5 Bride Thinks Returning Wedding Decorations After Using Them Is A Great Way To “Save Money”
I don’t know, but I feel like this is illegal and just a bad thing to even think about doing.
#6 I See You’re A Professional. Do It For Free
The first step is to figure out how much you can spend and then decide, as a couple, what your priorities are.
“Whether you have $1,000, $10,000, $100,000, or $1,000,000, it is all a lot of money,” wedding expert Megan Grose told The Knot. “Sit down together and figure out what is most important to you as a couple, then prioritize your budget accordingly.”
According to Zola’s 2025 Wedding Trends Report, ”couples are most willing to splurge on key elements including an incredible photographer to capture every memory, a stunning venue, and food and drinks that keep everyone celebrating all night long.”
The Knot meanwhile reports that couples typically allocate 8% of their wedding budget toward alcohol, and points out that hosting a “dry wedding” can really help to keep costs down. That might not appeal to everyone, but again, it’s about deciding on your priorities as a couple.
#7 “Budget” Grazing Table – You Get What You Paid For
#8 Wedding Venue Serves Tuna Tartar In A Pvc Pipe
#9 At A Wedding Reception Pot Luck Tonight. Served Cold
An obvious (but not always easy) way to keep costs down is to invite fewer people.The larger your guest list, the more expensive your wedding will be, notes The Knot.
“While a photographer will cost the same amount whether you have 50 guests or 500, there are other costs, like catering, that are dependent on how many folks attend. And by shrinking your guest list with a small wedding you can also lower some of those variable expenses,” reads the wedding site.
#10 Trashy Wedding
#11 Bride Tries To Force Friend To Do Photography For Her Wedding, Insists That He Pays Her For The Privilege
#12 This Gluten Free Pizza They Gave My Mom At A Wedding
Another option is to have a shorter reception as opposed to the traditional all-night affair. “While most wedding receptions include dinner and dancing, there’s nothing set in stone saying you have to follow that pattern,” reads the site. “Especially if you’re looking forwedding food ideas on a budget, opting for an abbreviated cocktail reception instead of a full-length dinner reception will save you money.”
Swapping out the cocktails for mocktails might help you shave even more off your expenses. Zola’s survey of 6,000 couples found that 54% of them will have these on the menu, meaning a booze-free or “dry” wedding won’t leave guests with limited options.
#13 A Home Depot Wedding
#14 This Was Served At A Wedding Reception
#15 Hot Tip – Save Money On Your Wedding By Defrauding Your Employer
Saw this posted on another sub and thought everyone here would enjoy it.
Being creative when it comes to your venue can help save thousands. Finance platform NerdWallet suggests looking into options like restaurants, breweries, or vacation houses. “All these options are potential affordable wedding venues,” reads the site. “Picking a spot that doesn’t usually cater to weddings can help you save money — and give your nuptials a unique feel.”
Other money-saving wedding hacks include picking an off-peak date or month and not having your event on a Saturday. Remember, the more popular the day, the more expensive the venue is likely to be.
#16 Begging For Money From Strangers Cuz You’re Getting Married
#17 I Went To A Wedding At A Mansion, And Discovered That They Had Painted The Grass Green. This Is My Feet After Walking Through It In Closed-Toed Shoes
#18 Bud Light Wedding
The devil is in the details when it comes to your wedding budget. That bouquet or flower arrangement you saw on Pinterest might look perfect, but did you consider whether those particular petals are in season? Being clever about your centerpieces, bouquets, and floral decor will pay off in the end.
“Botanicals and fruit can be added to tabletop decor, along with candles, to add ambiance, and often at a lower cost than fresh blooms,” advises Stephanie Cain, a wedding industry journalist.
#19 I Ate Mashed Potato Wedding Cake With Gravy Icing And Fried Chicken Topper
#20 Actual Quote From An Influencer Who Wanted Me To Address 250 Wedding Invites And Save The Date Cards. If It’s “Just Writing” Surely You Can Do It Yourself
#21 Can I Leave My Family?
Another tip is to mix up real and artificial flowers on the day. “Use silk flowers for big arrangements such as a floral chandelier above a dance floor or a ceremony arch behind the couple — and save the real ones for the tabletop, bouquet, boutonniere, and other moments when a fake flower would be noticeable to a guest,” suggests Cain.
#22 The Way They Served Ice Cream At A Wedding
#23 He Wore His Best Hat For The Wedding
#24 My Meal At A Wedding Recently
Last year, Zola reported that the average cost of a wedding was around $33,000. However, 74% of couples who married in 2024 said they ended up going over their original expected budget. Almost a quarter of them exceeded it by a staggering $10,000. But almost all felt it was “absolutely worth it.”
#25 For A Wedding
#26 Wedding Picture Level: Aisle 7
#27 Sister-In-Law Wanted To Make Her Own Wedding Cake
#28 Not Even Offering Exposure
#29 Facebook Friend Of Mine Posted Pictures From A Taco Bell Las Vegas Wedding
#30 1st Attempt At The Cake For My Brother-In-Law’s Wedding. I Sent A Photo And Asked If It Was “Too Rustic?”
#31 How My Work Likes To Store Soup For A Wedding
#32 The Bride Is Trying To Sell This Decor
#33 Woman Wanted Cartier Destinée Wedding Ring For Less Than Half Price And Called Me A Racial Slur For Not Agreeing
#34 Guests Will Have To Pay For Their Seat Because Bride And Groom Aren’t Rich
#35 He She Asked Said 10-4
#36 Theyre Asking For Free Weddings Now
#37 I Have No Words, Maybe Some Of You Might
#38 It’s Patented So Don’t Even Try
#39 Plate I Was Served At A Wedding
#40 Bride Cancels Her Wedding Because Her Guests Didn’t “Donate” A $1,500 Each To Fund The Event
#41 Pretty Trashy For A Wedding
#42 Asking For Money On The Save The Date
#43 What Could Go Wrong If I Order My Dress On Aliexpress?
#44
#45 A Groom Tried To Serve Old Fish To A Wedding Of 300 Today
#46 My Wife Found This In A “Budget Wedding Planning” Book While Thrifting
Jen donated the book with this note tucked inside, I’m guessing they didn’t want to hear it.
#47 I’m Selling A 100% Silk Wedding Dress For £75. She Offered £30 To Drop It Off
Turns out she meant £30 AND I drop it off in the next 6 hours because she’s getting married in 9 weeks and can’t afford the fuel.
#48 What Better Place To Go After A Getting Married Than Walmart?
#49 If They Are Asking For Money For A Dinner Than That Is Their Gift
#50 Bridal Party Only Allowed One Slice Of Pizza After A Whole Day Of Working
#51 Say It Louder So The People In The Back Can Hear: Don’t Skimp On Food
#52 Shirtless Wedding, Bride 4 Months Pregnant
#53 Bridezilla Is Upset Her Friends Wouldn’t Spend $3k For A Destination Wedding, Follows Up With A Registry Complaint. A True Knee Slapper
#54 All Jokes Aside, Please Don’t Do This To Your Daughter
#55 Put On Your Best Black Tie Ensemble… And Bring A Pan Of Rice Krispy Treats To Share
Using a throwaway for privacy.
This was sent to me by one of my friends (posting with her permission, since she’s not a Redditor.) She was invited to this wedding, and she’s seriously considering RSVP-ing NO. First of all, they call it an “afternoon wedding,” but it’s from 3-8 so…no. They’re holding it outside, in the middle of October, in a northern state (aka, has definitely seen snowfall in the past around the time of the wedding) and only serving “heavy h’ors doeuvres” when most people have to drive in and get a hotel. We’re both foreseeing a lot of McDonald’s runs after the reception. Also, I totally get wanting to save money (currently planning a wedding myself,) but not even mocktails? Or at the very least, some soda? Their families aren’t hurting for cash, but per my friend, the bride and groom are both known for being kind of stingy and greedy, so she’s not terribly surprised.
The icing on the cake (lol) is that, apparently, this is BYOD. This “between semi-formal and black tie” wedding is asking people to bring their own desserts to share. The best part? These two clowns have a $1200 TV on their gift registry.
Come to our wedding! We won’t feed you, you have to bring your own dessert, and we hope you’re okay sucking down fruit-infused water…but can you pretty please buy a TV worth four figures for us??
#56 Found In A Book Of Faces Group. Far Too Many Commenters Are Saying, Though Tacky, The Brother Isn’t Out Of Line
#57 I’ve Officially Dropped Out Of The Bridal Party. I’m A Size 12 With No Plans On Dropping To A Size 8 By December
#58 Nothing Says Classy Like Shotgun Shells
#59 So We Were Just Served This Quail Dish That Had Pringles On It During A Wedding
#60 For The Love Of Music Not Money
#61 It Can’t Be Just Me Thinking This Is Tacky
#62 What’s More Trashy? The Wedding Or The Caption?
#63 Supporting Local Business By Asking For Free Stuff
#64 Only In West Virginia
#65 Why Has This Not Been Posted Here Yet? It’s Gold
#66 Or Just Don’t Have A Cake At All???
#67 There Should Be Zero Expectations For Attendance With Destination Weddings
#68 I Don’t Even Know Where To Begin
#69 I Only Serve The Finest Meals On My Mother’s Wedding China
#70 This Wedding Sign
#71 Invite Shaming – Bride Asked A Friend Of Hers Who Was Studying Graphic Design, To Design Her Invites. This Looks Like Times New Roman On A Snowflake Background! Bride’s Mom (Who Is Not Good With Computers) Ended Up Designing Much Better Invites On Some Wedding Website Herself
